Today I have seen a little girl with her father . She may be three years old. Both of them are so happy.
. I went to my childhood days. My father used to iron my cloths for school. My mother tried to give the best nutrient possible. My parents were working in govt.office.They were very active. They felt in love when they joined the office and finally got married . No one was there to give support to that inter cast marriage. They tried to give the best to their children. Especially the mother. She tried hard .Sometimes it was difficult to manage the situations and convince her husband for economic support to educate the children.Though she was working woman still she was bound to ask for final decision from he husband.Finally her son and daughters got the position she wanted .But the story is not so simple.
She became ill in the process after going through tremendous stress and negative stress from situations. She had to prove for getting love and respect from the family of her husband. Because she has not got any support from her own family from the beginning . She got married to the person who was not that matured. Yes I am the lady from that family. My mother is now ill. My brother is working at a distant place . But I cannot take care of her when she came to my city . Why? That is a different story. In short our family is a joint family . To keep the family peaceful an women always sacrifices. If want to do something in your own way than the difficulties come in joint families.my parents always wants to see us happy .I feel a mother in law cannot be mother. This is fact .Again women are enemy of women.
Sometimes I feel why people don't want girl child. I am working woman. And I feel we are in creamy layer of the society.Then also I cannot take care of my parents who worked so hard for us. Sometimes I want to ask some particular people do you feel where I came from ?Sometimes I feel is love marriage is good ? It is not good for woman .This is my opinion. Finally I have done the same mistake what my mother had done years ago.
. I went to my childhood days. My father used to iron my cloths for school. My mother tried to give the best nutrient possible. My parents were working in govt.office.They were very active. They felt in love when they joined the office and finally got married . No one was there to give support to that inter cast marriage. They tried to give the best to their children. Especially the mother. She tried hard .Sometimes it was difficult to manage the situations and convince her husband for economic support to educate the children.Though she was working woman still she was bound to ask for final decision from he husband.Finally her son and daughters got the position she wanted .But the story is not so simple.
She became ill in the process after going through tremendous stress and negative stress from situations. She had to prove for getting love and respect from the family of her husband. Because she has not got any support from her own family from the beginning . She got married to the person who was not that matured. Yes I am the lady from that family. My mother is now ill. My brother is working at a distant place . But I cannot take care of her when she came to my city . Why? That is a different story. In short our family is a joint family . To keep the family peaceful an women always sacrifices. If want to do something in your own way than the difficulties come in joint families.my parents always wants to see us happy .I feel a mother in law cannot be mother. This is fact .Again women are enemy of women.
Sometimes I feel why people don't want girl child. I am working woman. And I feel we are in creamy layer of the society.Then also I cannot take care of my parents who worked so hard for us. Sometimes I want to ask some particular people do you feel where I came from ?Sometimes I feel is love marriage is good ? It is not good for woman .This is my opinion. Finally I have done the same mistake what my mother had done years ago.
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